Show him, literally with your hands, how you like it. He wants you to show him how you like it. Here are 21 things men may be into the bedroom, per relationship and sex experts: 1. But if you also just want to do your research first (you know, to figure out what you want to talk about before talking about it), we’ve gotchu. Highly recommend you initiate a sex talk since great sex = great communication. Now, if you’re just in the slightest curious about what your man may crave in the bedroom, totally get that. Your orgasm matters just as much as your partner’s does (no matter what your genitalia looks like). So first off: Lose the regressive trope of needing to please your man, and only your man, because that’s totally backwards. As women channeling major Lizzo energy, it's just as important to seek your own pleasure as it is your partners. Hi, yes, your daily PSA: Stop catering to men's needs as if yours don't matter.